Feeling lost, I ended up signing up for life coaching sessions to learn about my pattern; the root cause and how to actually create the life I wanted. Surprisingly, this is what I discovered: I had different love languages from my mom and thought she didn’t love me; so I was looking for validation from men to feel that ‘mother’ love. Hence, I said yes to any men who wanted to marry me and chase me because then, I felt loved. This was exactly how I attracted emotionally unavailable men in my life. Through the sessions, I released the trauma, I re-parent myself, I created a new chapter of my life. 

I started attracting the things that I manifested and I was full of joy, but then I learned that life will never stop testing you. Two years later, I went into depression again, losing 3 kg in a week. It was the time when I moved to Singapore to work for a unicorn startup tech company, spending 18 hours in the office daily and having very little sleep. I got anxiety, troubled breathing, couldn’t sleep and couldn’t eat anything. Everything felt foggy. I started questioning my passion and purpose. Took me a while to figure it out, but I finally knew I wanted to be a life coach. The reason was simple: so I can help people (like me) to get unstuck and stop feeling lost in life, career, and relationships.

Now, I can say that I help individuals to feel content, inspire couples to come back to love; and train high-achieving leaders to perform and collaborate confidently.